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Corie Feiner's avatar

I love this, "Practice ahimsa, compassion, by initiating self-love every day. Cultivate santosha, contentment, even on the days when you’re struggling. Moderate your energy (brahmacharya) by adjusting your practices based on how you’re feeling. Release your grasp on the past by letting go of the younger you and embracing the wise woman you are becoming (aparigraha). Surrender (ishvara pranidhana) to the universal wisdom of your female forebears. Be gentle with yourself as your body and life change."

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Patty Townsend | Embodyoga's avatar

Of the many transformations we are invited to go through as women — I found this to be one of the very most difficult. Perimenopause caught me by surprise. I wasn't planning a complete reorganization of self identity!

Obviously, our culture is still very hard on women. For me (and this is just me) I felt a profound dissolving into invisibility. I needed to reformulate — for myself — my usefulness and importance within my family, my work, and all that I expressed in every aspect of life. I was evolving and unfortunately, didn't at all realize what was going on. It all felt like loss...at first.

The most difficult part of it was that at the time I didn't know that this was an important developmental process and would bear so much delightful fruit in terms of vision, creativity and embodied wholeness. If I had known that perimenopause was such an important developmental process I wouldn't have resisted it so strongly and I'm sure it would have been an easier and perhaps joyful process of letting go and journeying into the new!

A door opens and we are asked to release what we hold in order to pass into the gifts of the new. Hmmm, something like birthing. Birthing hurts! But where would we be without it?

Thank you, Ashley for starting this conversation. 💖

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